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Almost two years ago, we adopted this wonderful ball of fluff, Elita. My wife found a picture of her in the shelter with her huge paws on a shelter volunteer’s hand and I couldn’t get her out of my mind. A few days later, we went to see her and unexpectedly came home with a 14 pound baby. Despite what we were told at the shelter, that she couldn’t jump and wasn’t a lap cat, once she settled in the house, her personality really started to shine. Elita turned out to be very affectionate and would jump across the room for the chance at a snuggle session. But she also is a little old lady and likes us all to go to sleep at the same time so I can hold her like a teddy bear as she falls asleep next to us.
Recently, however, Elita started having issues with urinating outside of her litter box, which is out of character for her. We got her an appointment for July 21st and, when they didn’t find anything, we thought it might have been linked to her reacting to changes around our apartment. However, we started noticing she was going to her box more frequently and began having diarrhea. With how much demand there is for vets, we were only able to get her into an Emergency Vet on July 25th. By this time, her energy levels were low and she had stopped eating. All these issues compounded causing Elita to lose .6 pounds between when we were able to get her seen by her vet on the 21st and when she was admitted to the ER on the 25th.
Unfortunately, while the vet was able to rule out a few things during her initial visit to the ER, Elita needed treatment for her dehydration, overnight hospital care, and more tests to find out what was causing her pain. Using an ultrasound, Vet Techs were able to learn that Elita had inflammation of the colon and the possible starting signs of kidney disease. Treatments for care, diagnostics, and medicine came out to a hefty bill of around $2,600 plus future treatments for her Vitamin B12 shots she will need going forward. While we were able to get approved for a veterinary credit card that allows us time to pay her medical expenses, it is a challenge for my wife & I due to my wife being forced to begin a new career path unexpectedly when her previous job suddenly let her go with no warning.
Elita means the world to us and we wanted to give her a fighting chance. Since the extended hospital stay, her treating vets believe that Elita will be able to recover as we treat the inflammation. With a treatment plan in place that will be in effect for the rest of her life, my wife & I are dedicated to helping our little fat furry baby keep her quality of life with as much love and grace as possible. Any amount of money towards her care will make a huge difference as we move forward one day at a time.

Audrey R., who’s running for the OTW board, is apparently also currently running for office. As a Republican

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so uhhhhhh keep that in mind when you’re voting

you’re saying this like a liberal who has the view of republicans.bad dems good and vote blue no mayter who.

y-yes? i sort of think the website that was founded because every other website was purging queer fanwork would be best served by someone who isn’t a member of the We Love Burning Books and Killing Gay People party. but that’s just the humble opinion of someone with a brain that works

For give me, but is this person running for Ao3 board and CONGRESSS at the same time??

Read Fairestcat’s breakdown of Audrey R’s answers to the OTW candidate Q&A for more in-depth reasons you probably don’t want to vote her onto the board https://fairestcat.dreamwidth.org/678527.html

Then read about all the other candidates and decide who you DO want to vote for -- there are 6 candidates and 4 open seats -- https://elections.transformativeworks.org/otw-elections-candidates/

Reminder that if you want to vote AGAINST someone in the OTW Board elections, you need to NOT RANK THEM AT ALL. If you rank them last, you've still voted for them--just less enthusiastically than you've voted for everyone else.

Rank ONLY the candidates you would be WILLING to see win. DO NOT rank any candidates you would not be willing to see win.

If you scrolled past the explainer on ranked choice voting, scroll up and re-read.

She has withdrawn! While whining the entire time about how people making other people aware that she is publicly running for office as a Republican is a mean and nasty witch hunt against her and she's done nothing wrong except be a Republican by choice and how dare we not like that.

Something that I first applied to working with children, and have applied in a limited form to working with adults: you don't need to tell someone when they read your instructions wrong. Sometimes it's enough to point out what they did right and then whatever they didn't do? You ask them to do it in more precise words, and you make it sound like it's a new request. Remarkable how fast things get done this way.

This is also a habit I built up from emergency response training. If I say "I need you to bring me a first aid kit and an accident report" and you bring me just a first aid kit, it's so much more efficient to say "thanks now can you bring me an accident report" than "I asked you to bring an accident report why didn't you bring me one".

Once you've internalized "a person bleeding out is one of the worst times to start an argument" you start to wonder what other tasks could get accomplished without arguing

Always nice when math helps make it all the more clear how ridiculously reasonable the worker demands are.

This is what the studios have brought everything to a grinding halt for.

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Legendary horror manga artist Junji Ito loved the Barbie movie (x)

also the reason those “disabled for a day” activities are stupid is that they can never truly capture any real disabled experience, they just make abled people THINK they know what disability is about

cool, you’ve gotten a group of uni students to use a wheelchair for a day. great, they now have an idea of how steep the slopes are and how many stairs there are. but do they know about the pain? the ableism? trying to navigate the healthcare system? trying to navigate any system for that matter?

they don’t. because they can’t really know. all you’ve done is made them think they understand the wheelchair-user experience, and therefore probably made them more confident than they should be

it’s infinitely more useful to give them the accessibility guidelines. get them walking around and measuring shit. have them talk to real disabled people until they start to believe us. I don’t know. just DON’T stick them in a wheelchair for a couple hours and let them believe they understand when they DO NOT


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Anonymous asked:

whatre your thoughts on tiktok considering its mostly spyware and nobody believes me ☹️

nyancrimew:

okay so tiktok isn’t anymore “mostly spyware” than facebook or google and i have yet to hear a single justification for why tiktok is any different that isn’t just sinophobia repackaged into smart sounding political and technological arguments. which isn’t to say that’s great, but like just please don’t fall for weird sinophobic or US nationalist arguments.

also my extremely hot take is that if we’re living in a world where we can at best pick between which government is spying on me i’d in a lot of cases rather pick the government that doesn’t have any impact in my jurisdiction, being watched by the chinese government will forever impact me less than being watched by the US or any european government.

absolutely not at all a pro big platforms or pro government surveillance take, just like a bit of a relative view on things.

no but like actually

who's the most fuckable

Timmy

Johnny

Spike

Vorthos

Melvin (not pictured)

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Now is an excellent time to tell your Democratic Congress Critters trans Healthcare is important

If you can't safely contact them in person, here are some other options:

Call the Capitol Switchboard at (202) 224-3121 and ask to be connected to the representative of your choice.

Here is one that will send your reps a fax: https://resist.bot/

This is extremely important, y'all. They're trying to Hyde Amendment trans care for people of all ages.

Medicaid and Medicare coverage would go away, no matter what state you are in. ACA plan coverage would go away. Hospitals would fully just have to stop offering trans care, full stop, or lose their federal funding.

I know we hate the phone but we absolutely can't sleep on this. If you have a Democrat rep, you absolutely have to tell them to hold the line against this.

Talking to myself out loud like a point and click protagonist

Losing it over some of y'all's tags btw Here's my favorites

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good night

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